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Couples Therapy

Couples therapy is designed to meet the relationship where it is. Every couple brings a unique history, communication style, set of wounds, and hope for what could be different.

Together, we look at the patterns that have developed between you, including the places where communication breaks down, emotional distance grows, or conflict becomes repetitive and painful. Rather than focusing on blame, the work centers on understanding what each partner is longing for, protecting against, and struggling to express.

Couples therapy creates space to slow down the conflict, understand the patterns underneath it, and begin rebuilding trust, honesty, and connection.

This process may support partners navigating conflict, disconnection, infidelity, trust repair, intimacy concerns, parenting stress, life transitions, recovery, or the impact of substance use on the relationship. The goal is to create a safer space for honesty, accountability, emotional connection, and practical change.

My approach is collaborative and tailored, drawing primarily from Solution-Oriented Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), and Narrative Therapy.

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Let's get started with a relaxed, no pressure conversation about what's going on with you and how I can help. Send me a message and I'll reach out for a no-strings attached 15 minute conversation.

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This website is for informational purposes only and does not create a therapist-client relationship. If you are experiencing a crisis or emergency, call 911, 988, or go to the nearest emergency room.  Services are not a substitute for medical detox, emergency care, medication management, or psychiatric treatment when those services are clinically necessary.

 

Mike Alberts provides therapy and counseling services in Hawaiʻi within the scope of his professional training and supervision. Telehealth services are generally governed by the laws of the state where the client is physically located at the time of the session, so services may be limited to clients located in Hawaiʻi unless otherwise permitted by applicable law. CRAFT certification reflects specialized training in Community Reinforcement and Family Training and is not a separate professional license.

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